Chefs ask the existential culinary question: What if you could choose your last meal?

On a recent Sunday night at Aberdeen Heights, a senior living facility in Missouri, the culinary team collaborated on a thought-provoking wine pairing dinner party.

7 February 2026 

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At a recent dinner, Executive Chef Robert Grotha and his team actually did it: They served dessert first, because “life is too short.” | Photo Credit: Shutterstock

At a recent dinner, Executive Chef Robert Grotha and his team actually did it: They served dessert first, because “life is too short.” | Photo credit: Shutterstock

It’s one of those questions that chefs always get asked: ”If you knew it was going to be your last meal, what would you order?” And that usually leads to mentions of favorite forbidden decadent foods, no-holds-barred beverages and comfort food working overtime for one poignant meal.

When Cura Hospitality Executive Chef Robert Grotha of Presbyterian Manors of Mid-America Aberdeen Heights in Kirkwood, Mo., and his team had that same slightly morbid discussion, it grew into a dinner party for residents that was deliciously philosophical.

“So often chefs are asked, ‘If you could choose, what would be your final meal?’ Well, this gave us a case study and some data on people that did know the time they would eat their last meal and what they chose,” Grotha says. “It was quite interesting.”

The aspect that it’s most often those on death row who know for sure about their last meal led to a collaboration with Prisoner Winery that became a food and wine pairing that celebrated life and making the most of it while we can.

The dinner party was part of the Chef’s Plated series that the Cura team puts on once a month for a small, lucky group of residents at Aberdeen. 

“We have a group of residents that are looking for an ‘ultra-premium’ dining experience, and our teams are blessed to have the opportunity to deliver it for them,” Grotha says. “The Prisoner Wine Pairing Dinner is our seventh installment in the series. It’s a plated dinner that usually consists of six to ten courses and is one that our team can provide that rivals any fine dining establishment in the state.”

Seating is limited to about a dozen diners, and even though the cost is extra, these dinners sell out in minutes flat.

The dinners are held in an intimate setting in the private dining room, and Grotha finds it’s an event that “showcases the talents and abilities of the entire department.” And the team goes all out. For Sunday’s dinner, both black and white truffles were flown in overnight from Italy; tomahawk ribeyes were on deck and pasta was made from scratch.

These dinners also allow the culinary team to use ingredients and techniques that wouldn’t normally scale for regular dining, Grotha says.

“It’s been such an educational opportunity for our team because it allows us to feature ingredients that we would otherwise not have available to us and serve in a style that our team doesn’t have the chance to do every night,” he says. “My culinarians are growing and getting more proficient in their skill sets at an incredible rate because they are learning, being challenged, and getting excited about the work that they do. Most importantly, the residents are the benefactors of our ‘pushing the envelope’ of what we can do as a team.”

Chef Robert Grotha and the Aberdeen
management team | Photo credit: Cura

The truffles were flown in special from Italy.
True luxury! | Photo credit: Cura

Here’s what the menu shaped up to be:

First course: “Life is Short — Eat Dessert First” featured chocolate cake (they really did it!) paired with 2023
The Prisoner California Red Blend and a ruby port.

Second course: This was inspired by nostalgic memories of a grandfather and grandson fishing for Spoon Scaled Bluegill at the local park, and featured Hyper-local Walker Lake Rainbow Trout Almondine with Meyer Lemon Brown Butter and Chive paired with a 2021 Blanc de Noir white pinot and a 2023 California Chenin Blanc. 

Third course: Here’s where it gets edgy! Silence of the Lambs Liver. Who isn’t curious about old Hannibal’s vision for Chicken Liver, Fava Beans and Chianti, which was a 2022 Santa Margherita Chianti Classico. The chefs have “always wanted to try and recreate Dr. Lecter’s request from the movie.”

Fourth course: Grotha took inspiration from reading the “it” hospitality book Unreasonable Hospitality recently. “There was an inmate who requested a bowl of Buttered Noodles as his final meal,” he says. “After reading Unreasonable Hospitality I wanted to really showcase 5% of our budget in a standout way.” This led to Cacio e Pepe: Housemade Pasta, Plugra Butter, Cracked Black Pepper, White and Black Italian Truffle. The pairing was 2024 Syndrome Rose wine and some bubbly.

Ribeye is the most flavorful steak of all and the tomahawk cut bringsthe drama | Photo credit: Cura

This Alcatraz-inspired dessert shows the
culinarian’s wry side | Photo credit: Cura

Fifth course: Now it’s time for that Tomahawk Ribeye with Assorted Dipping Sauces, which included Bearnaise, Chimichurri and Country Bob’s Steak Sauce (a regional condiment that originated in 1968 in Centralia, Ill.). The king of steaks was served with 2021 The Prisoner Reserve Red Blend. 

Intermezzo: Coca Cola Sorbet. “Most inmates’ final beverage selection is Coca Cola,” Grotha says. (Can we make ours Cherry Coke?)

Sixth course: Cast Iron Skilled Fried Chicken, served with homestyle whipped potatoes and country style green beans, paired with 2023 Unshackled Sauvignon Blanc. In his research, Grotha found that “many of the final meal requests are very comfort food driven and nostalgic,” he says. “Oftentimes it is not a fancy food, just food they grew up eating.” 

Dessert: The Floating Island Dessert was paired with a 2022 Winemaker Series Sweet White. The island was a play on Alcatraz in the Bay of San Francisco. 

What Grotha likes best about the Chef’s Plated series is the collaboration.

“The cool thing is that it also allows us to collaborate with our residents on what they want to see and experience. We had a resident that was from California and challenged us to do a Chef’s plated dinner featuring California cuisine,” he recalls. “We researched, studied, and presented a dinner featuring cuisine from California’s most celebrated chefs.
I had each one of my culinarians assigned to a chef to study and produce a dish that would represent their style.
We featured recipes from Thomas Keller, Alice Waters, Jeremiah Towers and Wolfgang Puck.” 

And great news for the chefs and residents: The series will continue, with a murder mystery theme coming soon.

Source: FoodService Director

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